Today, in a little while, Sam and I are going grocery shopping together. I know, he never goes with me. But we have a Brand new Warehouse type of Grocery store down the road that opened up right around Thanksgiving. I have been going there and I really like it. Well he says to me, the next time you go to "Redners" let me know I want to go with you and see what it is like inside because it is huge outside. I was like DANG!! Ok. So my husband is going shopping with me. I think he is changing a little bit. With the way I feel about myself it is making him happy with me too, because he WANTS to spend more time with me and Do stuff with me. He wants to help with the stuff around the house, laundry, dishes, vacuum, etc. He wants to have dinner with me and cook with me. He wants to chill and watch tv or movies with me. IT is so weird. I think a combination of my weight loss, my self esteem, and his almost loosing his job is making him appreciate the things he has. My neighbor told him, he better keep a hold of me, cus I am a good catch and if he don't treat me right, other men are gonna go after me. SO maybe that put a spark in his mind and eye that what he has isn't that bad after all. It could be worse. So my husband is liking the new me and he doesn't even have to tell me that he does. He is showing me. And you know what ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS SOMETIMES!!!!! We have been together 19 years so far and yes we have had our ups and downs, don't get me wrong, it has not always been peachy keen. But I think we are closer now then we have ever been. And I think it has a lot to do with the way I feel about myself. If I am happy that makes everyone around me Happy too.
So Sam and I are going to spend the day together doing stuff with just me and him. We are going to go to the mall (bath & body works is having a HUGE sale), he wants another game for the computer, we are going to go the casino and see if we can win some cash. Then we are going to go out to dinner (we haven't yet when we were going to a few weeks ago). We are not doing the movies cus there is nothing we want to see that bad. Then we are going to go grocery shopping. So that sounds like a great day together if you ask me.
~~~Everyone enjoy your Sunday~~~
1 comment:
I'm glad things are turning out great for you and hubby! But you are a beautiful woman with or without the weight...I mean that! Oh, about the puppy issue..I'm not sure if I'm gonna get my other dog fixed, but if I don't, I'm going to keep all the lil puppies they have. Unless of course, one of my family members wants one ;)
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